Dad’s Guide to Careers

  • This is a journey – enjoy the ride.
  • Decide who you are and:
    • Don’t look at what you are today, look at what you want to become
    • Take some action every day. EVERY DAY. I can’t stress this enough… EVERY DAY!
    • Observe men and women who are where you want to be:
      • Meet them – be bold – successful people LOVE to give back to motivated young people who show respect and appreciation
      • Network Network Network
      • Find someone you respect and establish a mentor/mentee relationship
      • Do not waste their time – if they give advice do it.
    • Craft a profile of yourself of what you want people to see both right now and future you
    • With that profile
      • Own it
      • Do what it takes – invest in yourself. INVEST IN YOURSELF!
      • Be patient! Be patient! Be patient!
      • Take some action every day. EVERY DAY.
    • Build a library of resources
      • Cover letters
      • Resumes
      • Case studies
      • Job descriptions
      • Profile resources – like images, bios, summaries, etc. of yourself
      • Anything that can help you later
    • Read Dave Tyburski’s guide

Relax with it

  • Seriously, relax with it. You are a great person, you have what it takes – you just need to
    • Take some action every day. EVERY DAY.
    • INVEST IN YOURSELF!
  • Continue to focus on what God has given you and how He sees you
  • Remember the Holy Spirit is your secret weapon.

BE BOLD

  • Learn to enjoy networking
  • LinkedIn can be your best friend
  • Put yourself in the other people’s shoes, if you were successful and a young, up and coming, respectful young person was asking for advice…how would you feel? How would you react?
  • Trust me on this, the fear that may rest in your heart about this is TOTALLY FABRICATED BY THE ENEMY! I know because I HAD IT TOO!
  • Smile when you are talking on the phone – it comes through.
  • If you are trying to get a thought out and you are struggling for the words
    • DO NOT GET FRUSTRATED
    • Do not get embarrassed
    • Pause – look them in the eye and state you need a minute to gather your thoughts
    • Measure your words – meaning after you gather your thoughts be sure your response is addressing the question at hand.
    • If after a short time you don’t know how to answer, THAT IS OK! Simply tell the person that and if the situation warrants it, tell them you can get back to them once you have a chance to find out the answer

Learn to be proactive

  • Remember the main thing? Always know what is going on around you.
  • Learn to be
  • Listen and pay attention
  • Remember Rule #1? Don’t panic.
  • Ask questions.

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Squash Equipment

Tips from Dulio

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Tension: 27

Words and Phrases

Inshalla: Word from Laura and Theo they used say. A transliteration or a variation of “Inshallah,” which is an Arabic phrase meaning “God willing” or “if God wills it.” This phrase is also used in Hebrew as “אינשאללה” (Inshallah) and carries a similar religious connotation.

Succession Planning: I used to forget this term all the time. A process used by organizations to ensure that they have the right people in place to fill key positions when they become vacant.

Leadership TED Talks

7 TED Talks

The Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz

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Thanksgiving Cheesey Potato Casserole

Family favorite

Ingredients

  • 32 oz shredded potatoes Buy frozen – thaw first
  • 8 oz sour cream can use low fat
  • 1 stick butter melted
  • 1 can cream of chicken soup
  • 2 cups mild cheddar shredded
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 1/2 tsp pepper
  • 2 cups corn flakes (measured before crushing) crushed in blender if measured after crushing – 1 cup

Instructions

  • Preheat oven to 350 degrees
  • mix all ingredients except corn flakes
  • pour into greased aluminum pan – half tray
  • sprinkle the corn flakes on
  • bake at 350 for 50 to 60 minutes
  • can make ahead of time and bake that day

Thanksgiving Cranberry Sauce

Best Cranberry Sauce Ever

It is a question as old as Thanksgiving Dinner itself – canned or homemade cranberry sauce!

Ingredients

  • Cranberries: Fresh or frozen cranberries
  • Sweetener: A touch of honey or maple syrup adds just the right amount of natural sweetness
  • Orange Juice and Water:  a splash of orange juice adds a delicious depth and is optional.

How To Make Fresh Cranberry Sauce

Wash your cranberries. If using fresh cranberries.

Boil the sweetener, OJ and water. 

Add the cranberries and simmer. Stir in the cranberries, bring the mixture back to a boil, then reduce the heat to a simmer. Let it simmer for 5 to 10 minutes while stirring occasionally. The cranberries will burst and the sauce will start to thicken. Once thickened, let it cool.

Let it cool. Let the cranberry sauce cool for about 15 minutes. Then transfer it to a container(glass is preferable) and let it cool in the fridge to thicken up.

You can make this ahead of time.

  • Storage tips: This will last for 1 to 2 weeks in an airtight container in the fridge. or up to 3 months if you freeze it. Let it thaw in the fridge overnight.

 

Thanksgiving Turkey

First, buy the right size

Rule of thumb is 1 pound of turkey per person. If you want leftovers – 1.5 per person.

  • Less than 8 people: 10 to 12 pound turkey.
  • For 8 people: 10 to 12 pound turkey
  • For 12 people: 14 to 18 pound turkey
  • for 16 people: 18 to 24 pound turkey
  • More than 16 people: It’s best to buy two turkeys rather than one monster sized turkey.

Roast Turkey Ingredients

Besides the turkey, you just need herbs, aromatics, and a little seasoning. Simple really is best!

  • Turkey: Any whole frozen (or fresh) turkey at the market works.
  • Better to use Fresh Herbs if you can: Rosemary, thyme, and sage are classic poultry herbs.
  • Onion and Garlic
  • Lemon
  • Butter
  • Salt and Pepper

Thaw The Turkey Properly

Rule of thumb –  It takes about 24 hours per 5 pounds of turkey to properly thaw in the fridge. Best to let it thaw for 3 to 4 days before the big day.

You do NOT Need to Wash It

Any bacteria on the turkey will get killed in the oven while baking.

Equipment

  • Roasting Tray
  • Meat Thermometer
  • Knife

How to Prepare and Cook Turkey

Once it is thawed, remove giblets. Let it rest at room temperature for an hour. Remove the bag of giblets and the neck, found in the large cavity and sometimes the smaller neck cavity (check both areas just to make sure you got everything out). You can save these items for gravy or discard them.

Pat dry and stuff. Pat the turkey dry with a paper towel.

Season and stuff your bird.  Season the inside of the turkey generously with salt and pepper, and stuff the cavity with quartered onion, lemon, and fresh sprigs of herbs. If anything, go lighter on the sage than the other herbs, as it’s more potent.

Make herb butter. Make the herb butter by stirring together the softened butter, garlic, salt, pepper, rosemary and thyme in a small bowl.

Spread herb butter all over. Loosen the skin of the turkey on top of the breasts by gently sliding your fingers underneath. Add about 1/3 of the herb compound butter and spread it evenly underneath the skin. Spread the remainder of the herb butter all around the outside of the turkey.

Don’t truss the legs! Trussing prevents the air from circulating properly, leaving the meat to cook unevenly. So even though your mom (and likely grandmother) did it, skip it.

Cook the turkey. Place the turkey on a roasting rack or on a bed of veggies (or both – which is what we do) and cook!

How Long to Cook a Turkey

Unstuffed turkey takes about 30 minutes faster than a stuffed turkey. On average, plan for about 15 minutes per pound of turkey. The BEST gauge is the temperature. You want to cook the turkey to 158° to 160°F (measure at the thickest part of the thigh or breast). Use this as a guide only:

  • For a 10 to 14 pound turkey: 2 ½ hrs to 3 ½ hrs
  • For a 14 to 18 pound turkey: 3 ½ hrs to 4 ½ hrs
  • For a 18 to 22 pound turkey: 4 ½ hrs to 5 ½ hrs

Check the temperature every 10 minutes once you reach 70-75% of the desired temperature (112° to 120°F). Remember that ovens can cook slightly hotter or cooler. Place aluminum foil on top if you see the skin browning too quickly.

IMPORTANT: Let Your Turkey Rest

Let it rest for at least 30 minutes. This makes for a juicer turkey.

Carving a turkey

Slice off the legs and thighs. To do this, slice through the skin between the leg and the breast. Then pull back on the leg, laying it flat outward, and push up on the joint from underneath. You may hear a slight pop. At that point, use your knife to cut around the joint and remove the leg and thigh completely. Repeat this process on the other side and set these pieces aside.

Remove the breasts. Slice down on either side of the breast bone, using long strokes. As your knife hits the bottom, use your thumb to gently pull the breasts outward, continuing to slice down and out until the breast meat is removed. If needed, you can slice horizontally at the bottom of the breast from the outside to help remove it. Repeat this process on the other side and set the breasts aside.

Remove the wings. Gently pull the wings away from the body and slice through the joint to remove it. You can remove the wing tips (there’s really no meat here), and they’re great for stocks. Then set the wings aside.

Separate the drumstick from the thigh. Now that all the meat is removed from the turkey, flip this piece over so it’s skin side down and you can see the natural separation between the drumstick and the thigh. Slice through the meat and gently pull pack on the drumstick to expose the joint, then slice through it. You’ll have two pieces, the drumstick and the thigh.

Remove the bone from the thigh. Use your knife to slice around the thigh bone, preserving as much meat as possible.

Slice up the meat. There’s two things to remember here. First, slice against the grain for tender pieces of meat. And second, use a very sharp knife to keep the skin attached to each piece.

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